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psychoblast
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 08:17 PM
I am kinky. I admit it. I think more people need to admit it, and at an earlier age, because the longer you go without admitting it, the more you deprive yourself of pleasure.

I love sex, I'm obsessed with it. I think I may be a sexaholic. I love it in every way. I want to experience it in every way. But doesn't everyone?

To me, being kinky is just being honest.

I mean, can't we all just be honest for a minute? Whatever touches our genitals and does NOT cause pain necessarily, in fact, is pleasurable, right? You can expand that to all your erogenous zones, to your whole body.

I want my cock (fortunately, quite large) to be fondled and licked and sucked in every way. If it is possible for four sets of lips to be on there at once, I want to feel that, to know what that is like, to savor that bliss.

And I'm not gay, but I know that it feels good if a girl massages my ass, even into my asshole, with a gently lubed finger, delving deep to stroke my prostate from inside my anal canal, an almost impossible -- not impossible, but very taboo -- pleasure.

I even can imagine the bliss, the sheer joy if a tongue were to lick my asshole, to dive within it (of course, I'd religiously clean myself before hand, so that it would not have any least hint of fecal matter. I'd make it as clean as the skin on my chest, on my stomach, on my cock.)

And I would do anything to give pleasure to the woman I was with. If she wanted me to lick her asshole, I'd do it willingly (after thoroughly cleaning her, of course). If she wanted to feel four tongues on her clitoris at once, I'd try to find others to share her with so that she could enjoy that sensation.

We are mortal. Life has enough limitations without us intentionally limiting how our bodies can feel pleasure.

Is there a unique pleasure to be felt from being fucked in the ass by my girlfriend while she wears a large strap on, makes me her bitch? I want to know that pleasure. Is there a pleasure in having her bound, gagged, while I squeeze her nipples to the edge of pain, only to then tease her to orgasm with my tongue, then leave her wanting more so desperately, only to go back to tortuing her swollen breasts, or making her sense the violation of a butt plug inserted into her, while she is helpless to stop it. Helpless, in fact, to even not enjoy it, because I stroke her clitoris until she comes while her ass is full and her nipples clamped, and the pleasure is so much sweeter because of the edges of pain and submission that surround it?

I cannot think of anything so disgusting that I would not do to turn on and give my lover a pleasure she might want, might desire. I'm not gay, but if she would experience some unique orgasmic bliss from watching me humiliated, sucking another man's cock, even that would I do for her. If only she opened herself to me the same, gave me the same back.

Why does this seem so impossible to find in life? Why does it seem that relationsihps are all about pretending what we do NOT enjoy sexually? Why do 99% of straight men pretend that it would not feel good to have a finger massage your asshole? What makes women afraid to ask their man for the sweet and exquisite and forbidden pleasure of having their asshole licked while pussy is rubbed?

It is funny, I don't think I have any fetishes, but I may be the kinkiest person I know. Or maybe everyone is as kinky as me, but not as honest?

Or maybe I'm just horny in Las Vegas, sin city, and so my mind wanders wild paths...

I guess what brings me to post this is thinking back on my lovers, the best were women in their 30's. They were honest. They were past their hang ups. They could admit their love of being treated like dirty sluts, degraded and used to pleasure my cock in whatever way I demanded, because they knew in return I'd give them orgasms that would shake the foundations of their reality. I guess it would be nice if girls (and guys) got more honest and less hung up earlier in life.

Don't you want to experience every possible way to bring your own body to orgasm? Every sort of intense sensation that could color and shade the experience, give it a new flavor? If that means having your mouth forced over a cock to the point where you choke on cum, so you can release your animal inside, your sexual beast that itself demands fulfillment, what is wrong with that? Would you give yourself up to be degraded and abused for you boyfriends pleasure if he, in turn, would lay down for you to fuck him up the ass with a strap on, see him humiliate and abase himself to give you the sense of power, of domination over the weak male whimpering beneath you?

Well, I think I better go masturbate...

~psychoblast~

Kelebug
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 08:25 PM
all i can say is wow...

I think Honesty is GREAT!

psychoblast
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 08:35 PM
If people were more honest, I think the world would be full of a lot more orgies and a lot fewer wars.

Maybe I should start throwing anti-war orgies.

~psychoblast~

Adrick
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 08:38 PM
ok you sexaholic

seriously people need to stop thinking about sex 24/7 and think with there minds maybe if they do that then this world wont be full of babies

but then again you respect the pussy


dont get me wrong sex is great and i love every single minute of it but it doesent mean that i am going to let it take over my life

you may have put a good point into this post which will make me look dumb but honestly i was to lazy to read the whole post

good day

Adrick

Adrick
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 08:39 PM
If people were more honest, I think the world would be full of a lot more orgies and a lot fewer wars.

Maybe I should start throwing anti-war orgies.

~psychoblast~


and a whole lot of aids!!! :D :D

psychoblast
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 08:43 PM
That's where condoms and other forms of protection (dental dams?) come in. Standard party favors at any orgy nowadays I would imagine. Seriously, though, I don't know since I've never been to one. But if I threw one they would be. That and a whole lot of lubricant.

Oh, and just because I am preoccupied with sex iin this thread, and sometimes in my life, does not mean I do not think about other things. See my post in deep thoughts if you have some time to kill and want a deep (though not necessarily correct or insightful -- just my own bullshit perspective) read.

~psychoblast~

Kelebug
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 08:46 PM
(dental dams?)
~psychoblast~

Haha...I use those at work for root canals...lol...

*Court*MA*bOB
Mon Dec 29, 2003, 11:23 PM
Im so inlove with your style Mr. psychoblast, if you get a chance to get published.. do it!


Sex is my favorite topic and you always seem to master it in your writings, I applaud you.

Keep it up.


<3

CheckerBoard
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 12:26 AM
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*Court*MA*bOB
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 12:33 AM
aww hi RoBbObOBeEe

JustSarah
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 12:43 AM
ok so I am all about honesty and I agree that what ever to get you off do it more power to you

but it takes time to realize what you like its not like I woke up at 15 and was like damn I love it when I get choked out or I cum hard as fuck when I am getting it on with someone who dominates and degrades me like Im a dirty slut it takes hella time to realize what is pleasurable and probably by age 30 I will think something else gets me off

and I agree about gratifying the other but there are many who think getting beat is disgusting shit I know girls who think head is nasty giving or reciving



the question really is about this post is: Was this your way of finding the freaks and getting them to show themselves so that hmmm one can only wonder lol

but seriousely we are all freaks in some way some want to admit and proudly do while others are on the opposing scared to come out side its all about finding someone you feel comfortable with to experience those things that give you and them pleasure

sarah

Furious D.
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 01:24 AM
So its ok if i like it when girls pee on me?!?! :D

JustSarah
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 02:10 AM
I will pee on u any time hun
as long as you give me a golden shower right afterwards
and if you take a shit on my chest i am so down lol


so let me know k

lmao
sarah

psychoblast
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 02:16 AM
JustSarah:

Good point you made, which I think is generally that sexuality is an evolving process and so, perhaps, it makes no sense to look down on the earlier stages in that evolution since they are a necessary stage in the process of figuring out what you like. I admit I hadn't been thinking in those terms.

I don't think I meant to identify other "freaks" with my post, but rather to dispel the idea that extreme kinkiness is freaky. I think it is the norm, and that we pretend it is not because of outdated puritantical ideas of what sex should be about.

Furious D.:

No, that is just sick. (j/k)

~psychoblast~

technoaddict
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 02:16 AM
Wow you people are way freaky!

To think I've probably partied along side most of you.

dont get me wrong sex is great and i love every single minute of it

Minutes huh Adrick??

Curtis

_shammy_
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 03:34 AM
the fingering of the asshole is alright as long as it isnt a guys finger... or if its a girls finger, youre not thinking about a guy while shes doing it...



STINKY PINKY!!!!

spins19
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 04:54 AM
Adultsuperstore....300.00......and a girl who is a freak


PRICELESS


any takers???

TNess
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:30 PM
i dont feel like a virgin anymore after reading that

StrawbrryStitchz
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:34 PM
hahahahahhahahahahahhaha x 4723957892

i will never deny the fact that i love sex. i love having orgasms. BUT i aint going to tell ya'all what i like cuz ya'all dont need to know. anyone that deserves to know will be the one doing it. =)

<3 amylynn

kINEkT
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:36 PM
dont get me wrong sex is great and i love every single minute of it but it doesent mean that i am going to let it take over my life

you may have put a good point into this post which will make me look dumb but honestly i was to lazy to read the whole post

good day

Adrick

But reproduction is the ONLY reason we exist. I agree with adrick but i just had to bring up that point.. we are animals and we were born with only 1 thing that was natural instinct without any teacher.. and that is to fuck (reproduce)

BTW psycho i think it extends much farther than telling what your sexual pleasures are.. people should be honest in their entire lives, not just sexual lives. I think that is a MUCH bigger problem...

Alyshaz
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:54 PM
Kevin ...good point, as always. I personally got a little weirded out, and kinda angry when I read some of the things placed on this topic. Not because people were being honest about their sex lives, or likes. I just was raised to not discuss that type of thing with others. I never got into sex based on the fact that everyone I did it with was a mistake before I met my hubbie. A mistake because they, like some of the people on this topic thought it would be okay to tell others all about it, and make me feel like trash. I don't know, whatever you want to say, you have a given right, and a certain respect for being open about it. I just don't believe in talking about it, oh well.


Signed,
Alyshaz

psychoblast
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 11:34 PM
^^^
That is your choice, and you are entitled to it. Personally, I think not talking about sex is pretty messed up. Pretending it is something dirty and shameful. IT IS THE MOST PLEASURABLE PHYSICAL ACT A PERSON CAN ENGAGE IN. Why treat it like a disease? Like a necessary evil? Like a death? Why do we allow the most gruesome violence on television, but not a pair of bare female breasts?

It is a sickening perversion to view the physical act of love as a BAD thing to see, to discuss.

And the bottom line is that, IMO, those who are too shy or repressed to talk about this stuff generally are pretty boring and uncreative lovers. And that certainly does not bode well for their future relationships.

~psychoblast~

Adrick
Wed Dec 31, 2003, 11:56 AM
^^^
That is your choice, and you are entitled to it. Personally, I think not talking about sex is pretty messed up. Pretending it is something dirty and shameful. IT IS THE MOST PLEASURABLE PHYSICAL ACT A PERSON CAN ENGAGE IN. Why treat it like a disease? Like a necessary evil? Like a death? Why do we allow the most gruesome violence on television, but not a pair of bare female breasts?

It is a sickening perversion to view the physical act of love as a BAD thing to see, to discuss.

And the bottom line is that, IMO, those who are too shy or repressed to talk about this stuff generally are pretty boring and uncreative lovers. And that certainly does not bode well for their future relationships.

~psychoblast~

pretty intresting point you brought up there espeically the fact with sex. The thing ive noticed about sex or talking about is that the freinds that talk to me about there sex lives are the people i can trust and know that they wouldnt fuck my girl if i had one. The ones who never talk about sex and are quite are no fun people and are sometimes the people you should watch out for

thats just something i have noticedfrom my past history

StEpHeRmAnIe
Wed Dec 31, 2003, 12:47 PM
and to think my ex g/f thought i was weird cause i masturbate to porn
lmao.....