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*TAMSTER*
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 02:32 PM
I SOOO FEEL THAT LOVE SUCKS! I TOTALLY STOMP ON LOVE AND ALL THE HORRIBLE THINGS THAT ARE ATTACHED! IVE COME TO A POINT .... TO.. JUST BANG MY HEAD AGAINST A WALL. OVER AND OVER AND OVER! IM MAKING AN IDIOT OF MYSELF... ITS PATHEDIC.. AND ITS HAPPENING AGAIN! IS THERE REALLY A NEED TO FEEL POWER OVER ONE ANOTHER IN A COUPLE? MUST WE ALWAYS GO ON A POWER TRIP?! ARE WE NOT ABLE TO BE WHO WE ARE.... WHO I AM? JUST TAMMY... DO WHAT I WANT ..GO WHERE I WANT..TALK TO WHO I WANT? I GET SO DAMN TIRED OF THINKING OF ME SECOUND... IT HAPPENED BEFORE, AND I TOLD MYSELF.. NEVER AGAIN. HOW DO I FALL INTO THIS? I CAN BE ME.....? IS IT ABSOULTLY NECESSARY TO BE IN LOVE?


OH AND UH.......... CANT A GIRL GO OUT FOR ONE DAMN NIGHT!!!!?

O Urban O
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 02:44 PM
i just broke up with my girlfriend. she was in love with me...i dont know if i felt the same...maybe i did...maybe i was just scared. fuck.

i agree...this shit gets way outta hand :(

eWoLdAfUzZy
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 02:51 PM
relationships are dumb..i'm threw with them for a long time

technoaddict
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 02:54 PM
I SOOO FEEL THAT LOVE SUCKS! I TOTALLY STOMP ON LOVE

I think that most of the guys you've been with, if not all, feel the exact same way.

_shammy_
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 03:25 PM
RELATIONSHIPS SUCK ASS

stasis-AA
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 03:27 PM
I SOOO FEEL THAT LOVE SUCKS! I TOTALLY STOMP ON LOVE

I think that most of the guys you've been with, if not all, feel the exact same way.


hahahhaha

*TAMSTER*
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 03:53 PM
WHAT THE HELL IS THAT SUPPOST TO MEAN CURTIS!

Anonymous
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 05:53 PM
yeah tell me the fuck about it!!!!! =(

kINEkT
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 06:54 PM
love is an emotion and if we've learned anything it's that they really are fake. what i mean is people confuze sexual attraction with love, and thats not true at all. you can be sexually attracted, feel love, but in fact.. not love the person.

in my eyes, the definition love can not be used for more than 1 thing of a certain category of items. Like.. I love hershey's chocolate. What's gonna change that? Nothing. Will I still love it when I die? Yep. Will i ever like another brand? Never. I love playing comp games. I like it more than playing any other form of game. I will always like it, and nothing will change that. Both these items make my life that more special and will never change. I think the same thing can be said about a person. I will truely only love one person in my life. I've never loved my past people in my relationships. I havent found or met someone with such incredible attributes and similarity to me.. that I could say I love them. I hope I only have to use the term in relation to a female only one time, because once I have found my true love.. nothing and I mean nothing will ever change that.

jiggy66
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 06:56 PM
Kevin's high and getting all philosophical.


Written like a true stoner. Well done, son!

Dis B ZooL
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:16 PM
yeah I think so.. way too deep mang.. but yeah.. love sucks.. or rather the drama and hurt that comes with it sucks.. when its all going good you know you feel like you just got high for the first time tho.

Adrick
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:19 PM
I SOOO FEEL THAT LOVE SUCKS! I TOTALLY STOMP ON LOVE AND ALL THE HORRIBLE THINGS THAT ARE ATTACHED! IVE COME TO A POINT .... TO.. JUST BANG MY HEAD AGAINST A WALL. OVER AND OVER AND OVER! IM MAKING AN IDIOT OF MYSELF... ITS PATHEDIC.. AND ITS HAPPENING AGAIN! IS THERE REALLY A NEED TO FEEL POWER OVER ONE ANOTHER IN A COUPLE? MUST WE ALWAYS GO ON A POWER TRIP?! ARE WE NOT ABLE TO BE WHO WE ARE.... WHO I AM? JUST TAMMY... DO WHAT I WANT ..GO WHERE I WANT..TALK TO WHO I WANT? I GET SO DAMN TIRED OF THINKING OF ME SECOUND... IT HAPPENED BEFORE, AND I TOLD MYSELF.. NEVER AGAIN. HOW DO I FALL INTO THIS? I CAN BE ME.....? IS IT ABSOULTLY NECESSARY TO BE IN LOVE?


OH AND UH.......... CANT A GIRL GO OUT FOR ONE DAMN NIGHT!!!!?


aint karma a bitch??
:)

kINEkT
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:30 PM
nah just over explained lolll. People need to stop saying love when they really ment like/interested in. There is a huge difference.

Kevy Kev
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:32 PM
Love sucks.

Starla
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 07:57 PM
Wow Kev, What a way with words!! Well, this whole love things is a confusing one, but your quote- [quote="*TAMSTER*"]WHO I WANT? I GET SO DAMN TIRED OF THINKING OF ME SECOUND... quote], makes me think of these two quotes that I think shine some true light on the topic of love:
"The only way to develop a true love relationship is to let your own personal intrests take second place to the needs of your loved one."

And perhaps the most true quote of all:
"Love is a state we achieve and not something that simply happens to us."
hmmm.... +)

(<3 C.T. :D )

Jennybear
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 08:01 PM
Love rocks. It is our selfish needs that suck.

technoaddict
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 08:06 PM
Love is passion
Passion is life
<3 ACG <3

Alyshaz
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 08:23 PM
Love is unselfish, it wasn't meant to be put aside for one night while you go out with the girls. Love doesn't fight over who should do what with their life. Love is when you wake up every day without questioning who you are sleeping next to. Love is when you want your partner to go out, with or without you as long as he enjoys himself. Love is where you gladly help eachother instead of complaining who did more. Love is where even if his friends annoy you, or cause you to feel out of place, you accept them because they remain true to the person you love. Love is sober, always fresh, and neverending. True love is when that person is someone you could never get over, which is why true love lasts a lifetime.

That's my outlooks, and personally I find them to be true. Based on the fact that I do have a happy, healthy relationship. Why stay with someone if they aren't making you happy? We can reproduce with strangers, but only experiance pure love when it's true. There is no way to fake an emotion inside your head.


Signed,
Alyshaz ..xoxox

PiOTREC
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 08:37 PM
I SOOO FEEL THAT LOVE SUCKS! I TOTALLY STOMP ON LOVE AND ALL THE HORRIBLE THINGS THAT ARE ATTACHED! IVE COME TO A POINT .... TO.. JUST BANG MY HEAD AGAINST A WALL. OVER AND OVER AND OVER! IM MAKING AN IDIOT OF MYSELF... ITS PATHEDIC.. AND ITS HAPPENING AGAIN! IS THERE REALLY A NEED TO FEEL POWER OVER ONE ANOTHER IN A COUPLE? MUST WE ALWAYS GO ON A POWER TRIP?! ARE WE NOT ABLE TO BE WHO WE ARE.... WHO I AM? JUST TAMMY... DO WHAT I WANT ..GO WHERE I WANT..TALK TO WHO I WANT? I GET SO DAMN TIRED OF THINKING OF ME SECOUND... IT HAPPENED BEFORE, AND I TOLD MYSELF.. NEVER AGAIN. HOW DO I FALL INTO THIS? I CAN BE ME.....? IS IT ABSOULTLY NECESSARY TO BE IN LOVE?


OH AND UH.......... CANT A GIRL GO OUT FOR ONE DAMN NIGHT!!!!?

All i have to say that we all have our faults, and yes that includes you too
we are not all perfect, and some of us try to change, also is love necessary well right now it might not seem like a plan but when you get older you will realize that yeah friends are there but they are not going to be there 24/7 just as your loved one would be. And have ya noticed that friends dont have to do shit for you and you will still have more respect for them than what you have for the one that actually cares and does so much to keep you happy.. And the control issue well that goes both ways
you just dont realize it, and yeah when it comes down to it sometimes
you just need to open your eyes and see that its not as bad as it seems, it comes down to petty arguments that at the end have no meaning... which i have realized.. as well as apalagized for.... So look at it this way almost 90% of the time everything is great but then 10% is bs, and if you think about it what would a relationship be without argueing people have differences, and they dont have to agree to everything, also why can't a girl go out for one damn night, well as i remeber when i use to kick it with my friends, you would throw fit about me leaving you alone as well as you also would give me attitde about it... so what does it all come down to... i dont know you tell me.....


** Yeah EB turning personal... **

Kelebug
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 09:55 PM
I love Love! I love the love that I feel from people who love, especially the people whom I love and the people whom love me!

jUnKo MiZunO
Tue Dec 30, 2003, 10:16 PM
Be FREE! Love will always come again to beautiful people, in side and out...


dont worry be young.

trancedj
Wed Dec 31, 2003, 01:28 AM
love sucks i just got fucked over by my girl of 3 years on xmas!!!! How did she do it? With a dam email!!!! now thats just sad! I wanna be friends bull shit! FUCK LOVE and FUCK HER!

WiThAsPoOn
Wed Dec 31, 2003, 01:33 AM
People need to stop saying love when they really meant like/interested in. There is a huge difference.

My boyfriend told me "I like you" as opposed to, "I love you" for the longest time. I still tell him I like him every so often.

But Kevin...I agree, but may not fully understand all this so-called love bullshit quite yet. I am still new to "love." I think people are too quick to dive into things. I know I am, and I fall easily and hard.
Alex and I have been together for over a year and we have good times and bad times. The good always weighs out the bad--as of yet. The standing question is, "if I knew what I know about him now a year ago...would we still be together?" My answer is and has always been yes. I am well aware now that if the bad ever does weigh out the good, that it is definately time to move on. "Love" is about experiencing things and situations and people and relationships. True love usually comes after that. Maybe I'm wrong or too drunk and/or emotional...I don't know at this point.

angelkisses
Wed Dec 31, 2003, 11:48 AM
my opinion is that love can be good but mostly it hurts too much to say that it is good .....it is good for a moment but yeah the whole relationship is the one that determines how it will turn out thats how i see it .....

*Court*MA*bOB
Wed Dec 31, 2003, 12:08 PM
BitterSweet

TribalGrooves
Thu Jan 1, 2004, 07:33 AM
I love Kelle she is great LOL . ;p

HoUsemuzak
Thu Jan 1, 2004, 10:34 PM
RELATIONSHIPS SUCK ASSYes they do ...!!!

sleepee
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 05:05 AM
IS IT ABSOULTLY NECESSARY TO BE IN LOVE?

Its necessary not to be selfish if you want to be in love or have a long term relationship.. ^:?

StayAwkewleUsLEEP
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 10:17 AM
i don't believe in love. Everytime A guy said he loved me what i think it really meant was i want to dress you up like i do my life size sex doll... but she's nekked most the time....BLAH

I know I 'm just pussy on stix need i be reminded everytime i go out or walk out my front door.

whether i be completely covered or dressed like a french whore. I'm still just a dumb slut to the average prick who's main reasons of talking to me is so he can get in my pants and get rid of me. MOOSHY SHIET MAKES ME SICK!!!!!

LOVE STINKS! I HATE YOU

The one and only
-Skipizle

JustSarah
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 10:22 AM
love is what you make of it


you make it suck or you make it wonderous
I think most emotions you project on to other become reprojected on to you aka karma and what you do comes back unto you

so make it what you want and


GET THE FUCK OVER IT DAMN ITS A GUY HUN ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD YOU WILL FIND ANOTHER SAP.

ps you have done some fucked up shit in past relationships (if it was a relationship) so tough shit karma is a bitch

Sarah

RaveCrusader
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 11:01 AM
There is quite a bit of cynicism in this thread. I understand people’s frustration with ‘love’. Something that is as based emotion is bound to have some painful backlash. I understand that everyone was pretty much venting in this thread. I think that it brought up some pretty important points though.

It is interesting that Love and Hate are not really that different when you get down to the nuts and bolts of it. So it almost seems logical to apply one to the other. IE, one hates love. Both love and hate are very strong emotions and they are not really on opposing sides. Truly the opposition of strong emotion can only be indifference.

One of the things that I have discovered from my own experience is that I have to take responsibility for the bad relationships in my past/present. Being in and staying in bad relationships was my own fault. I was the only common denominator. Breaking cycles of dysfunction can be difficult for anyone, especially me.

Some peeps stomp on love while others embrace it. Then they trade places. It is an interesting cycle. But what else can we really do? We all here are probably looking for the same thing really. But, I am willing to bet that not everyone knows exactly what that is. I know that I am not so sure anymore.

^:?

bigmike
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 11:05 AM
life is what u make it, we are put here for 1 reason, to reproduce...love doesnt suck, its just the way u look at things when its over, being hurt is only an emotion as is love, I mean u cant have any type of relationship(including friendship) without being hurt at some point, so I say fuck it and do what u gotta do while youre here because life is too short...ive been going through a bad break up for like a month now and it is shitty at times, its like u take shots at the other person to see what emotional damage u can do, everybody does shitty things to get back at one another, I admit I have lol...but in the end we all say how much it sucks and how much we hate it but u know deep in your mind that u will experience it again one day...so live, get drunk, fuck, and be happy my .02 cents

StayAwkewleUsLEEP
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 11:08 AM
I love you...


I hate you

I love you??


I HATE YOU =)

I think your right.

I tink therfore i am

I am not a peice of meat i mean I eat all my veggies

SOmebody grab me a shovel dab nabbit

RaveCrusader
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 11:08 AM
so live, get drunk, fuck, and be happy my .02 cents

Awesome... That's more like it.

HotAzzBiatch21
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 04:05 PM
LOL Adrick! Took me a few mins to relize who it was! :P

Sounds like there's trust issues and insecurity. Someone must have given someone reason to feel insecure. Take my advice if that's how you feel then your weren't meant to be. Love is not doubting or seconding guessing someone. Trust me I used to be like that and now it's great to be with someone and not to worry about them doing me wrong or loving me less. Just think about your future and know true love only comes once in a lifetime and you will know it when it happens.

Just don't stay with someone because you fear your going to be alone or that you can't be comfortable with anyone else. I thought that and have friends who think that. Wouldn't it be nice to be with someone and not have to worry about being hurt. If we gotta guard the person were with outta fear they are going to hurt us then somethings not right.

I dont know all this love crap is complicating and everyones opinions are different. I am happy I don't have these issues and that the amount of love I feel for my boyfriend is overwhelming. And no doubt we had to work as "one" to get to this point.

StayAwkewleUsLEEP
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 06:12 PM
it always takes a real womens good words of advice to make everything feel alright
-Skippy

Im not a poser skip-e im the SKIPPY
HOlly Fuckin Skippy

RaveCrusader
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 06:14 PM
interesting

sleepee
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 06:15 PM
umm what does this have to do with "Adrick" ??

i'm lost.

HotAzzBiatch21
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 06:34 PM
umm what does this have to do with "Adrick" ??

i'm lost.

Nothing I was laughing about what he posted.
"aint karma a bitch??
:) "

sleepee
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 06:41 PM
"aint karma a bitch??
:) "


Isn't it??? ^_^

HotAzzBiatch21
Sun Jan 11, 2004, 07:03 PM
"aint karma a bitch??
:) "


Isn't it??? ^_^

I really don't know I never asked it! Why don't u tell me?