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angelkisses
Tue Mar 25, 2003, 06:59 PM
hey well i was wondering what to do i'm in a situation with no real solution and the outcome will be chaos ! it's involving a friend and the outcome will be something i hoped will never happen ! see i predicted this out come before but now i'm scared it's really happening and this is a serious matter of life and death! so can someone help me out on this i can't really say what it is exactly but if you read above you might see what i'm talking about this is all i can say ! someone give me some helpful advice put yourself in my situation ! please no rude comments not in the mood for that shit! thanks bye! and please respond a.s.a.p ! :|

~*sWeeTz*~
Wed Mar 26, 2003, 08:23 AM
UmMm that is so not a lot to go on at all...*hmpf* But anyways...if it has to do with people feelings and your own...dont be selfish, put theirs first..it will end up in less drama, if thats what you want.

*shrugs* I could help more if you caould give more details.

loky
Wed Mar 26, 2003, 05:52 PM
i say let this person be free, if deah is truly the answer let this person have it. maybe its his final true happness. did you ever think about that. yes dont think for you self think for this person. :|

angelkisses
Wed Mar 26, 2003, 08:38 PM
well thanks you guys for telling me some advice on this ! and loky .......how is it their final happiness? there is more to life than death and this person is young and has their rest of their lives to experience and see all there is to know ! yeah i already know what your gonna say that this person has experienced everything already but this person has barely lived half of the life and to say it is faith i refuse to let that happen or believe! especially to the fact that i really care about this person as well ! so it s more of both ways it has some on my part because sicne i care but it's mostly the others ! i'm just really worried for whats' to come there won't be any less drama then it is now and with all this happening and all it doesn't help any ..........i have my reasons for all that i say and i'm going to stick with it !

loky
Thu Mar 27, 2003, 09:06 AM
i have a good guess that he remebers the past. his life is much longer then you remeber from the past :|

SpeciaLK
Thu Mar 27, 2003, 04:48 PM
I really can't put my finger on exactly what you're going through, from reading later posts you've made on the topic, I'm guessing there's been a suicide threat... I can't say you should let them do it... You gotta see, while they may have had a horrible life in the past, I'll bet this person can have a lot to live for... At least, when I've been faced with these obstacles, that's how I tried to look at it. I don't think that wanting to help your friend is selfish at all, but if you are trying to help, make sure it is for the right reasons. No one deserves to live in pain, but no one deserves to die in pain either. ^:?

angelkisses
Thu Mar 27, 2003, 05:06 PM
true true special k ......no one should live or die in pain but it's not a suicide threat ! thank god but it is something still serious as such though ! similar just not a suicide ! but thaz all i can say about it ! but yeah i don't see how what i'm trying to do to help out is being selfish because it is not and my doing's are for the sake of that person not on me but trying to help that's all ! but thanks for your advice ! hmmm..... i think that the problem i was having it is now gonna be gone so i'm feeling a whole lot better ! hopefully things like this doesn't happen again i have prevented it from occuring or so it will be real soon ! but thanks everyone for helping !

loky
Thu Mar 27, 2003, 06:09 PM
well lets hope that it is the end of it or it will really be the end. the truth lays in his hands. this i know

SpeciaLK
Fri Mar 28, 2003, 07:19 AM
All I guess I can really say is yay that it's not a suicide threat but what ever it is, hopefully it works out for the best! :P

angelkisses
Mon Mar 31, 2003, 06:24 PM
hehe special K thanks for the support ! but so far everything it all right and i'm happy but yeah hopefully it won't happen it hasn't so far and i'm praying to god that it doesn't not until at least this person has become old and it's his time but not now it's way toooo soon !

SpeciaLK
Tue Apr 1, 2003, 09:16 AM
::understands now:: Awww, I'm really sorry to hear about that... Life is such a crappy thing sometimes... I wish I could tell you something that would make everything okay or something that at least makes things seem okay... Either way, I guess the only thing I can tell you is to cherish the time you have had with this person, and especially the time you have left with them [not to sound so bleak]... Ya know?
Cheer up, things will be okay sooner or later!!!

angelkisses
Tue Apr 1, 2003, 07:54 PM
hey thanks but i think you have a misunderstanding it's not really like that well it's too complicated to explain anyways but yeah right now at this moment everything is fine but i just don't want for it to happen nothing happened as of now but it might happen someday and i worry about that but in the mean while i try not to think about it and just enjoy time all i can with my friend! thanks though again special K !